When it comes to what I wear at church, I’ve never been one of those people who owned a suit and tie, and honestly even really bother to pull out a polo for church. That isn’t who I am the rest of the week and knowing that God wants the authentic person to walk through those doors and seek Him, I have no reason to put on a show by wearing anything other than what I prefer to wear to any other place and at any other time of the week.
That hold true to Wednesday evenings when I step up on stage to help lead a few hymns. Many weeks you’ll find me wearing either a church branded t-shirt or a plain t-shirt that I was probably wearing while mowing the yard just a week or two ago. What I’m wearing isn’t who I am, it isn’t going to change how God and I relate.
Actually, that isn’t true, because if I’m uncomfortable wearing clothes that aren’t what I’m used to, how can I comfortably come to God and have a genuine conversation with Him?
And for all of the crazy things that have found their way into the American church, i.e. Coffee Bars, smoke machines, merch stores, concert level sound and lights, the relaxation of what we wear is one of the things I’m more than ok with. It’s one of those things I’m working to teach my kids as well; God doesn’t care if you wear name brand or thrifted clothes, He only cares that you are willingly seeking His love, guidance, and grace.
Think about it, did Jesus only talk to people who were dressed in fine clothes, clean, and worried about their appearance? No, in fact those were often the people He either avoided or despised. Jesus spent His time working with, talking to, healing, and loving on the people who were dirty inside and out. His ministry didn’t worry about fashion, it worried about souls.
And when I walk through the doors of a church, meet a group to serve meals at the local BSM, or volunteer for pretty much anything that is done in the church’s name, I’m going to show up as I am. I’ll be comfortable and ready to do work.
Anything else would be a masquerade, keep the real me from every knowing the real joy of His grace and mercy.
J.Rhett Lively 